Tag: love

I Love Your Mommy

I vowed to never love again. I get it a bit melodramatic right? But understand this. I was in the middle of a turning point in my life. The point where we no longer are; we have become. 

I’ve always been a bit of a romantic. And when my marriage failed I didn’t have a plan B (no pun intended). The one thing that was certain was that the woman I was with had no interest in ever having children. I had tricked myself into thinking I was okay with that which deep down I was not. 

You see I come from a big family. A big Italian family. I have cousins I’ve never met and others I haven’t seen in years. Without my divorce I wouldn’t have met Violets mother. I wouldn’t have Violet. Or this blog now that I think about it. So in actuality 3 good things come from one bad situation. 

Do not ask yourself why and be a victim, ask yourself when and be the victor. 

I’m a difficult person to understand. I haven’t even figured out how to interpret everything I feel myself. It gets a bit easier with each passing day. Everytime I blog or podcast I discover a little more. I Discovery more about myself and those around me. 

I probably don’t say it enough, but I love Violets Mommy. I probably don’t express it enough, but I love Violets Mommy. I probably don’t deserve her, but I love Violets Mommy. Communication is difficult. Especially for the reason that technology has just about taken out the human element from most things. If you are able to communicate love above anything else, if only for a moment, I’d say you’re doing alright. 

At the Fair

Violet, you are growing up so fast. Raising you is simultaneously the most difficult, and most rewarding thing I’ve ever done. One thing is certain I wouldn’t be able to Raise Violet the way she needs without Violets Mommy. 

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How to find time, Daddy time – (Mothers Day Tribute)

  

How to find time, Daddy time – (Mothers Day Tribute)

By: Anthony Hayes


You’ve got to go to work, come home, walk the dog, and pick the baby up from the sitter. But that’s not all…Next it’s a load of laudry, start dinner while simultaneously answering emails and singing the theme song to “Sofia” or “Doc.” 

“Hey boo, how was your day?” 

“Well quite honestly, I don’t remember. It was over in the blink of an eye…”

Sound familiar? If you are a new dad like me it should. Finding a balance this first year was difficult. Tension will arise, heads will butt. Everyone has different schedules, different circumstances. But there is a solution. A way to find “Daddy Time.” 

To find the answer you must familiarize yourself with the old adage, “Behind every great man there’s an even greater woman.” It is an expression that could easily have originated from close observation of the relationship of our first patriarch and matriarch, Abraham and Sarah.

Abraham was great enough to realize that it was not his merits or his close connection to God that would protect them on this journey. It was Sarah who had an angel at her side ready to do her bidding. It was Sarah who would achieve exactly what they needed on this segment of their ongoing spiritual journey. 

The relationship you share with your spouse must be one of love and respect. If you need a moment to yourself; to go play a round of golf, what have you, the loving support of your woman will allow you to do this.

Without mine I would not have the ability to do many things. Here of just a few:

  

Happy Mothers Day to ALL the wonderful supportive Moms out there!! Thanks for all that you do for us all 😘

“Control the controllable, as for the rest Keep on flowing…Just be.”

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